lessons from my dog

Border Collie sitting in a meadow

Shifting Your Baseline

“That’s the calmest collie I’ve ever seen!” commented the man in the shop. Finally, I thought, we’ve fooled someone. This dog was an out and out loon who spent her first two years attracting tutting and judgmental comments with her reactive behaviour. But then I thought about how much had shifted for Lani.  Actually she’s mostly happy, […]

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A border collie is paddling in a loch

Why Telling Yourself to Relax is Useless

Telling yourself to relax is useless. Just as dogs don’t understand English automatically, your body doesn’t know what your instructions to yourself mean, unless you teach them properly. Dogs learn what words mean well, despite us often being fuzzy, imprecise trainers. But it’s amazing how many people will repeat ‘Come here Bella!’ in the park

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